
Joyce: Consider yourself blessed in that this thorn in your flesh has been removed. Find relief in the discomfort! Another blessing is that you weren’t married, and it doesn’t sound like there were children involved to further complicate this new journey in life’s turn of events.
Set aside time to make a list of the good, the bad, and the ugly in this relationship. When carefully assessed, you will find the “ugly” to bring valuable life lessons, as painful as they might still seem to be. Life lessons often spew forth one of two reminders: self-standards you lost sight of somewhere along the way, or an indicator that you need a set of new ones.
Perhaps your standards were too low at the outset. Go ahead. Raise the bar. When you do, how might that look? The way you value yourself should show anyone interested in a relationship with you that you will be:
- Treated with respect,
- Afforded consideration,
- Assured of integrity,
- Esteemed in dignity, and
- Loved worthily.
Change your life … NOW! Write Joyce Oglesby, Family-Life Fitness Pro™, at joyce@justaskjoyce.com. I’m here to help! Check out my books and other resources today at JustAskJoyce.com.
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